Kim...As you know, I am certainly NOT an expert. But I think you shouldn't voice any of your concerns with your H at this point in time. He has indicated that he wants to work on the M, and he has been honest about the OW, and as you have also witnessed, OW has gone ballistic. Although your H has said that he will TRY to ignore OW, he did have a R with her, and I think you should sort of give him some SPACE till he FULLY wakes up. You don't have to sit at home to wait for his calls. You can still GAL, and make your own plans. But perhaps your scheduled Thursday night dates would be a good start to reconnect. I don't think it would be wise or advantageous to totally jump into the sitch where both of you spend 24/7 with each other. Think it needs to be eased-in bit by bit...
