You handled all of that so well! You are truly a Wonder Woman. I'm sure all of this was very difficult for you and OW doesn't sound like she is going to make this easy. But keep working with and talking to H in a manner where you are doing this together. I think you are stepping in the right direction. Kim, you are terrific!
BTW, what is it with these OW's? I just don't get it.
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr