The title doesn't work, also I'd steer clear of the word 'dirty' if this book is about rape as survivors of rape don't want to get the idea that they are dirty because of what happened to them.
I'd go for something like, 'Our Little Secret - One Couple's Struggle For Love and Life after Incest.'
A lot of perpretators of abuse tell the victim to keep it 'our little secret', I know because I counselled girls and women at a Rape Crisis Centre for 2 years, so that's why I think the title would work.
Just a suggestion.
As for my book, it is available in stores but only if I request a store take it on, or the store request it. Currently it isn't in store in the US as I don't live there so it makes it hard to know where to go/who to organise with.
It is in the library here and I think there's a copy with your main US library (don't know what it's called), but you can get it at loads of places online, e.g
Barnes and Noble, Amazon, Pickabook, etc etc. You can order it from my site but it diverts to the publisher so it's the same as ordering direct from him.
Next year I'm going to buy up loads and have a book signing in a local book shop. I hope to get a bit of publicity like that , and I've got advertising on authors den, plus about 150 visitors to my site per day (it used to be about 15 per day a couple of months ago).
It's out there as much as I promote it, essentially, and I've only just started. I have big visions
Gabe - I shall kick the publisher up the arse. You should have got your book by now. I will see to it that he sends it to you ASAP and if he doesn't, I will get one myself and send it to you. He is so slow sometimes! But rest assured, it is worth the wait