She found me on Yahoo Personals, so its not "mail order bride". I am skeptical about almost anyone, however I do know the Russians that moved here and they are good people.
I will not blow money on a "gold digger" whether she is a native texan or a russian. I will not try to impress anyone, they will have to fall in love with me for who I am. I just got scammed by a full blooded american girl who I knew for 20 yrs, she is on her 3rd man besides me this year so any trust will take a considerable amount of "faith building" by any women.
If I get scammed for a green card, at least God will know that my intentions were good. I couldn't hurt as bad as being betrayed by my wife.
After posting on this BB for over a year, I have become trusting of several people, I never thought I would care about my DB friends in the beginning. However now I feel their pain when things go bad for them even though I never met them. By taking my time I will be able to tell if she is really a trustful Christian women or just trying to use me.
Jo,
You are funny, the 3-4 cm thing would be pretty bad. (In Texas centimeters don't count) LOL. I am not really worried about the "sexual fit", I guess I never had a problem with that happening. One lady many years ago used to cry after ML, that freaked me out for awhile (she was strange anyway) but I think if a man and women really love each other they will learn what each other wants.
After being married for a long time, it takes some creativeness and openness to keep the fire burning.
I find that I miss the company more than anything, so the russian lady may first become my internet friend like you are. My work schedule doesn't give me the opportunity to meet women unless they are my customers, so right now if nothing else I can work on my communications skills with her.
Ok, I have spent way too much time thinking about exotic foreign women today.
By the way my two best friends are from Pakistan, they are Muslim, honest and the most loyal friends that I have. When some of my other Christian or American friends find out they are Muslim they warn me. These guys were the first people to come to my house when my dad died. The church I attended sent nobody, no card, no flowers, nothing. (I changed churches) So I guess I trust non US citizens just as much as anyone else.
