What do you mean, 'put up with you', you're nice, you can say what you like on my thread as long as it isn't obscene
You know, you probably won't believe this but I made Andy wait to have sex with me until we were engaged. We started dating in February 1994 and it was May before I let him kiss me. Prior to that, we just held hands, went to dinner, to the movies etc.
Then in August 1994 he asked me to marry him and asked to move in with me so I slept with him then. We moved in together in September. Our official engagement was the following April and 2 months after the engagement party I was pregnant, so I ended up being 6 months pregnant on my wedding day.
But I still made him wait until he'd proposed.
I'm a bit old fashioned like that, I wanted to make sure it was love.
My only difficulty with waiting for the wedding night would be that you don't know if you physically 'match'. Some guys I have been with were SO awful I would never want to do that again. 1 guy had a penis that was so tiny (about 3 or 4cm) that I got absolutely NOTHING out of sex with him.
If you've married them and then you find out afterwards that you don't like sleeping with them, what do you do?
With Andy I just *knew* we fit sexually. Maybe it's like that when you meet your future H/W and you just know.
