Hi Gabe

Well in the UK as of April this year, donor details are identifiable. That means that the parents would know what I look like, my medical details, and my background details, and the child himself could trace me when he's 18 if he wants.

I am also entitled to write him passages about myself and my family, to send a message to his parents and to know whether anyone was pregnant from my donation or whether it failed.

I also have the right to choose who my donation goes to, i.e, religious orientation, sexual orientation, background of the potiential parent. I specified at the time that they had to be a couple that was in a stable R, no single women, but that I didn't care whether they were lesbians or a hetro couple. I stated I didn't care about religion.

They changed the law in April so I had the same rights as a birth mother who gives up her child for adoption.

Jo.