Jo, We all want you to keep posting, it is theraputic for us to read your post also. You are a very talented writer so there is no way to get sick of you posting.
I feel like we are somewhat in the same boat. My XW is alot like Andy. She ML to me, snuggles for a few days then runs away for one reason or another.
About 2 weeks ago she got an email from a guy she went to grade school with, now she acts like I don't exsist. What on earth can a married man with two kids 1500 miles away provide for her? I think she is less mature than a teenager. (I remember getting crushes on several girls at the same time or dating one for awhile then dating someone else next month)