Quote: That's why I just can't be there for them and don't plan on being a part of their lives; I know some people on here think harshly of me for not trying to see them more, but he's so freaking controlling that I can't. If he can get so het up about me telling my DD1 not to wear earrings (which I can, she is after all my DD), then I just can't put myself through the stress of trying to parent them.
Jo - I KNOW he drives you crazy and hurts you. But are you willing to put your own hurt above the damage that will be caused to your girls by being raised by this drug-addled jerk?
I beg you to keep what contact you can with your girls. They are going to need you desperately when they are older. He is NOT a good parent.
