I went to the clinic and they reckon my eggs are done already so they told me to inject myself with HCG tonight and be at the hospital at 8.30am wednesday, the operation will be at 10am.

They told me I am nil by mouth from Midnight Tuesday. They told me I will need 3 to 4 days rest afterwards and that for the first 24 hours after I go home, they want someone else with me at all times.

Great, I wasn't told this before. I'm not sure if Andy would do that for days just yet, although I reckon he would do the 24 hours with me. I also have friends who would.

Also, they told me no sex afterwards for SIX WEEKS!!!!! Ugh! Do you reckon I could persuade him to have me tomorrow night before I go in, LOL?? I could tell him he has to make it good enough to keep me going for 6 weeks, LOL.

I have tried to contact him re the operation time and being there with me or at the very least, looking after DD4, if he can't get a babysitter at such short notice, but he isn't answering the phone and his cell phone cuts straight to the answer machine, which means he's out and either at a home ed thing or doing something to do with his dad.

The thing is, if I can't get hold of him by this evening, I will have to make other plans with my friend, as the nurse is phoning in the morning to see if I need a cab.

I have gone into panic mode, trying to get hold of him. I know logically he should be back later and he doesn't even know about the operation yet, but the suddenness of it has thrown me into panic.

I just HAVE to get hold of him. UGH.

Jo.