You're the one whose H has moved over the other side of the street and wants to 'date' you, right? I looked at your thread the other day. I have been separated from mine since April 02, divorced in December 04, but we've been a couple on and off for the whole time, other than 1 year in the middle when the legal stuff was too nasty.
One of my friends, Martha, was in the same sitch as us too. Her H left her and their DD but then they reconciled after D, had a commitment ceremony and another DD. Apparently she tells me now that her H wants to re-marry her properly (he gave her rings ages ago, which she wears, and they live together), but she says no in case he's D's her again, LOL.
Nice to speak to someone else from the UK. I love Devon, it's a lovely place, much nicer than Nottingham, LOL.