So you've forgiven me, then, for getting totally sick of Andy and wrecking up my DB'ing? LOL.
Yes it is more peaceful - how long for I'm not sure. One thing that has changed is that I'm far more direct with him. Sometimes he gets angry but most of the time he responds okay to directness. It's more real.
I admit that when I joined this forum, I thought it was for people still in R's post-D (i.e, where the WAS wants the R too) as Andy and I were (and he still keeps making his interest clear).
I found I was the only one on here aside from jdd, where both people in the couple were interested. I kinda imagined that people who weren't in that sitch, would be in the 'surviving the big D' forum (or whatever it's called).
I have debated whether to move to that forum, but it doesn't feel right when Andy is still chasing me etc. If he turns round one day and says 'I'm done' (and he actually means it), then I think I will.
I'm glad you're still here, though, I feel like one of the die-hards!
