ZenMan, how are you? Yes, thanks for pointing out what may be a positive. He can recommitt but not ready for me too? Are you serious or being hopeful and grasping at straws? He's just been way distant, but then I did chase him away. Time and patience, I know. But at the same time he needs to understand a difference too. That what he does at home is OUR business and I am part of that, and even though what he does when he drives out the driveway is still my business - his secrets are his life to deal with. Which reminds me - when I was at the library the other night I got a book, When Your Lover is a Liar. I have to make time to read.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.