Quote: ...and I wish you didn't always try so hard to hate me.
WCW, I told my W a similar thing; I didn't use the 'hate' word, but 'love' word', i.e. I asked her why is she trying so hard not to love me.
Well, she came back after couple of days thinking about it. She was actually very upset saying: It is very rude of you to think about me this way', etc.
Just a warning for you, as your H may be thinking about what you said, and maybe even feel hurt by it.
My latest life Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm - Winston Churchill