Realizing you are on your trip and out of touch, I wanted to be the first to welcome you back and say I hope you are having (and had) a wonderful and relaxing time. I also hope you have re-established your self esteem which you were letting get away from you. Your comments and suggestions have been intelligent and helpful. You are an insightful person and I hope you re-discover you on this trip. Don't mean to be too harsh on your H, but any individual who cheats on their spouse is a lowlife in my book.
From the discussions on this BB I can tell that I'm older than most of the members. During my long tenure on this earth I have developed a digital attitude - people are either honorable or not worth a pinch of coon sH$t (a phrase I picked up from a Canadia piasan). A guy who had been a friend of mine for 20+ years was married longer than that. His wife had a stroke recently and was struggling to regain her speech and mobility. His reaction was to divorce her and walk away. I'm sorry for his trouble, but what he did was not honorable and we are done. Like I said, I'm digital.
Hope you enjoyed your time away -(((((((WCW)))))))
