Hanging on this Merry Go Round #4

[aynesr]

H ended up seeing it and was VERY upset that I had done that, that I felt he abused me. Sorry, anesyr if you read this, I know how you feel, sorry.

Of course I read your posting, dear, I do! And no need to feel sorry. Look, I by myself didn't always treat my W in the most respectful way, so this is only reason I didn't say what AZenMan said.

You are such a good person, WCW, so I have no doubt that your H sees and knows that. So, why does he behave in a way he does?

Well, I am asking this question about myself as well. My W is awesome person, I dearly loved and love her, and yet I said what I said. I think your H does have a problem. He is not able to admit in it, and uses you as his 'Tylenol'. He knows that you always will be there for him.

I do not feel comfortable to advice, as you know, I screwed up my M quite well, but I in addition to taking care for yourself, I would try to leave him alone for awhile. I know it could backfire, i.e. he may think you do not care about him, but I think this may show him that you are not in his 'pocket', and you are not always available for him. I would give him a shot.

Please have a great and relaxing trip. You deserve it so much.