Dear WCW, it seems that we both are in the similar situation, even we've came to it from a different angles. I've reviewed all what I've been trying to do since all this started, and it seems that whatever I tried, just didn't lead to any significant change.
There were changes, but either not significant, or they have not lasted for a long time. So, I was asking why it is. Why is it W doesn’t respond, and yet she is still lives with me?
Slowly, slowly I understand that all this is not quite about me, WCW. It really is not. It is about her. She undergoes her own process. MC calls it a transition, a growth process. Other may call it MLC.
WHATEVER. Your H may undergo something similar as well. So, what shall we do? Well, with my C I started working on focusing more and more, if not ALL OF IT, on myself.
Not that I do not care about her, I do. DBing has helped me great deal to learn about myself, and how to use changes that I made to improve my R. So, 180, Act as if - these are wonderful techniques, but they affect mostly us, and not our S.
So, I guess we have no choice but let them go through their process. Let's take care for ourselves, WCW. We deserve it.
