Opti, I'm so glad for you that things are feeling better. It gives me hope....
What would happen if I tried to initiate? I'm not sure, I tried when he got home from his trip and it didn't go well. He was braced against it, which might be just what my text mssge did, brace him up again. And maybe it softened him up too, all I can do is feel him out when he gets home, but I doubt there will be time anyway, which goes back to the beginning of the problems. No time.
Can we skip the meeting tonight? Sure, if the world stops turning! No, we are not that important and neither is this meeting. But this is the organization that H skipped last time when he took off on his trip, and being he is chairman he should show up to this one and take care of business that has been hanging for 2 months (and stuff that I did NOT do for him).
My thoughts is that he'll come home and act like this morning never happened. And someday he won't come home.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
