Is he afraid to feel for me again?

Yes he is

am I too strong?

No you are not.


how can I soften him just a little to consider a real try

Not by playing her games. For one thing he knows you better than that. Now come on. There has to be something he does for you because you need it - reach something on the top shelf, unbutton your bra on the back , something.


After our talk about all day thoughts of sex and tearing clothes off, I sent him a text message. I said "lets rip our clothes off when you get home...." Will he be mad? will he think it's funny? I just don't know, but I have to keep trying.

Hmmm. Doesn't matter because you can't help what he thinks. I wonder, what if you just ripped clothes off? I don't know, maybe I have sex on the brain. Maybe you could just rip yours off first and the move on from there?

I guess what I am saying is words are good but actions are better, but I know how hard the fear of rejection is too so you do what you think is best. Just don't build it up too much in your mind. I know you have a meeting tonight and you guys (especially you) may be the most repsonsible people on the face of the earth, but can you skip it? Just a thought.