Thanks BigAl. Is he afraid to feel for me again? am I too strong? how can I soften him just a little to consider a real try?
OW can suck him by needing him to help her with things at her place. She crooks a finger and he can't get there fast enough. We need things done at home and they go unnoticed and unfixed, and if I say anything I'm nagging. So I don't, and I try to take care of it myself. Then I'm too strong and don't need him, and he doesn't like that. What's right? what's wrong?
After our talk about all day thoughts of sex and tearing clothes off, I sent him a text message. I said "lets rip our clothes off when you get home...." Will he be mad? will he think it's funny? I just don't know, but I have to keep trying.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.