I agree totally Opti, being together can make you feel together, etc. Which is also why he won't do things like that, he won't sleep in our bed, he won't hug, he won't be a generally nice guy. And I can't crack the turtle shell this mule has around him, and I haven't had much try in me lately to make the attempts. It'll come back, soon I hope. I'll be right over...
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.