bigAL! howdy! nice to see you!
I am always in doubt of my appeal especially going thru the last couple of years. Now I'm not an ugly duckling or big as an elephant, but if the package doesn't look good do you look any further? Can't it have something to do with the whole deal? And yes, I do want to feel better about my physical condition. I was SO thankful last winter that I had lost weight during the year prior, it was very physical work while H was laid up and it sure made it easier that I could just move better, even in the layers of winter clothes.
But still, seriously, if you look at someone that is not appealing it sure can't help does it? For instance, looking for a date or looking at pictures, what does your mind say when you see Bo Derek (ok, can't think of someone current) or Roseanne Barr?


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.