Here's another 2 cents...do you really want to invite H along on this possible 5 day trip. First off, I sure hope you do go and have a BLAST!! But, you've invited him along for stuff in the past, it's not as if you haven't shown him that kind of consideration. And I'm NOT saying to leave without a word out of anger and revenge-and I know you already decided not to (even thought a part of ME wants you too also). But, why invite him, especially if you really don't want him to come anyway? You need this time for yourself. Take it. Don't feel obligated to ask H to come along. If going on a trip like this and NOT inviting H to come along will be doing something different AND good for your PMA...then GO and DON'T invite the man (just let him know that you're going and around when you'll be back, to show you're not trying to retaliate).
