Hello there young and heart Gran

I can relate to the PMA roller coaster - up one day and down in the dumps for no apparent reason the next. Recognising the fact, and making allowances for it, is a huge advantage. These days, when my PMA is low, and I see things negatively, I get the old filters out and do not react till my PMA is back up again
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I have a chance to take a 5 day pretty cheap trip with a few friends next week. I would like to go, just not sure how I feel leaving H at home to roam, not that he doesn't have free run even when I am home. And if he would think it is retaliation for his last trip, and that would give him more fuel to feed the fire. Fanning the embers to a flame is great, but fuel for a big blow is not. It sure would be a great GAL, and a 180. Heck, maybe he'd even want to come along?

Oooh - I hate to say this, but I remember these feelings too Wanting to do my own thing and have some uncomplicated fun, but worried that NG would see it as license for his version of fun - gosh, what a mess it was. The question is, would this trip be for you to take a break, or for you to draw H closer? Sounds like he will do what he wants to do anyway, so this may in fact be a non-issue. What do you want for yourself, WCW?

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time