Quote: More incremental goals – H initiates more communication H initiates more physical contact H accepts my physical contact
WCW, I do not want to be a pain in an a$$, nor I want to be a spoiler. I just want to be a good friend and supporter of yours.
From my experience, whenever I set goals that I have a little or no control over, I failed. I hope it would be differently in your case, but I would recommend to you to reconsider these goals. It is tough to make someone else to initiate communication or physical contact. G-d knows I experienced it! They need to want it. We cannot make them to do that.
Again, my humble opinion. Best of luck.
My latest life Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm - Winston Churchill