I've been posting in We're seperated, but think I may belong here. H left me for OW period. This is the 2nd A of our 5 year marriage, fist was EA, this one went to PA before he moved out. We have 3 boys under 3 and they miss him. H takes them to daddy's house about 2x per week, but never spends a full day with them. I'm left in limbo as I try to wait out OW. Actually I have decided to call this "consession land" as my H said that he would make the consession not to D me until July 1, 2006 so that I can keep insurance. So for me I find no positives in the he hasn't filed yet situation. I find no positives at all right now. Just wondering if anyone has any words of encouragement for an R with no communication except what kids had for lunch and the two minutes to move car seats. Its been 3 months now. I know OW is still in the picture. H is busy without us, very busy with work school new friends and OW. barely sees his kids, doesn't ask about them, I am 2 solid months of DBing with all the PMA and no R talk that I can muster.
