I will try to address the question of being surprised. There was always a part of me that thought she would one day wake up and realize she really loved me all along. That feeling started to fade around the 9 month mark of the divorce. After I moved 6 hours away, I had completely closed the door of hope but maintained a watchful eye on this site so as not to forget about my personal growth. So there was a part of me that was surprised and not surprised at the phone call a couple of months back. As for this past weekend, I could sense she was going to introduce the idea again in person based on other behaviors leading up to it.
