First of all, thank you for these amazing posts! I honestly believe that alot more sitches play out this way eventually, but that it goes unreported. Impossible to say for certain, but I have seen alot of similar stories all over the Internet.
------------------------------------ "She said she made a mistake divorcing me and wants to reconcile but has alot of confusing issues that she must resolve in order to be absolutely sure. I told her that I would be supportive during this time of reflection even if the outcome was not positive. She began to cry and said she has never stopped loving and caring for me but felt the divorce was the answer to her unhappiness. Another regrettable action of many in her life. ------------------------------------
You handled that very well.
Again, I just can't believe how many times I have read these words from women in similar situations.
Frankly, it scares me in that I have been on the exact same course with my W for a year now (well a year of DBing, in her mind several years). I know that she will regret it, as does her family. Actually I think that my W knows, but yet she continues down the path... Tragic and frustating! There seem to be quite a few of us headed down this path in fact...
Jet: Just curious, is this a surprise for you or did it always seem like this day would come?
------------------------------------ I felt badly for her as she was beating herself up pretty good for what she believes is another bad decision. She definately needs to work through some things but I am starting to see the woman I married again. The fog is slowly lifting." ------------------------------------
I can't even imagine what that must be like to see first hand after all of this time. Glad to hear that she seems to be gaining clarity!
