I don't speak with anyone who she might confide in. She gained custody of all our friends so I have had zero contact with any of those folks since the divorce.
She mentioned to me in that infamous phone call that she did not like me dating and I responded that she was. She said in a somber tone....yea, I guess thats not fair. I told her it sounded like a classic case of she did not want me but did not want anyone else to have me either. She did not agree or disagree with that statement.
The fact is, I may be feeling similar. It still bothers me some that she is with the OM but as more time passes I think less and less about getting back together. I'm not real sure how to disect that feeling right now.