Good for you. I think you stood up for yourself very well. I agree wholeheartedly that she needs to come back for YOU. If she still states that she, "doesn't have those feelings that a wife should have", then keep her at arms length. If you were dating someone and they wanted to live with you/be married to you, etc, wouldn't you expect that, at the very least, they love you? She needs the time to examine herself and what she said. The more elusive you are, the more she'll consider working on herself to get you back. It worked for you didn't it? Give this some time. It came on so suddenly that it could be temporary insanity. She'll work this through and get a better feeling of what she truly wants.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
