I have been in a lurking mode for several weeks. There has not been any positive changes or interactions lately with XW. We are on a more business like communication at the moment.
My GAL has worked wonders for my PMA but I need to stay very busy or I find myself a bit down and depressed. I was at a place where these down periods were happening less frequently but I have had an emotional setback.
I learned over the weekend that my X became involved with this OM just a few days after our divorce was final and it is continues. The hard part for me is I know the OM as I was friends with his brother. There were times during our marriage that I was suspicious of an EA between he and my X and to learn that a relationship began so quickly after D has given me this feeling of being betrayed. Almost feel she left to pursue him. If not, then the OM was at a minimum a distraction that may have prevented my X from reconnecting.
Although in the past, learning that the reason she told me she wanted a D may not have been entirely true, my healing process has taken a severe jolt.
