As far as MLC, she fits the description in DR to a tee. She was unhappy in the M and has no feelings left for me. But we also fit the scenario of chapter 1 so who really knows. She is full of confidence and told me yesterday she is much happier now.
I kept the house for the time being....has to be on the market by year end. She rented a townhome 3 miles away.
I was told in March that I may get transferred in November. It did not happen...at least not yet as it has been postponed until March 06. When she filed I became extremely upset about the "loss" of a relationship with my son if I were forced to relocate a great distance away. I indicated I would fight for custody even if it bankrupted us both. She chose to give me custody I guess to avoid this fight and her realization that my son wants to live with me. I think too it could have been a peace offering since she really wanted this D to be friendly.
But with the relocation pending...we agreed she would maintain custody for the remainder of the school year to avoid that major change in his life. So the agreement gives me custody at the end of May 06.
She takes him to school each morning....I pick him up each afternoon and he stays with me until she gets off work. She drops by daily to pick him up. We also see each other every Saturday morning for my son's flag football games. He is also with me EOW and some of the time on her weekend because he wants to come over. So right now...I see and talk to her everyday.
We are cordial to each other most of the time but I get a poor attitude when I think she is out with a male friend she enjoys the company of. This has created some tension because I am still jealous of her activities. I know that is not good. More on that later if needed.
As far as my GAL. I joined a Men's group at my church that meets weekly. I am also attending a DivorceCare program that meets weekly and I play softball weekly. Add those things to my son's activties....I am staying busy.
