I reviewed your posts, and no, you're not crazy. IMHO, DBing post-D seems to make sense ESPECIALLY if the WAS is going thru a MLC/depression. Do you see your XW as experiencing that? I say this b/c of her willingness to give up her child w/out so much as a fight. That's very unlike the choice of a happy, confident woman.
Fill us in more re your current sitch, in terms of living situation, distance/freq contact b/t you two, your GAL work/plan, and areas of agreement/peace and continued conflict.
