He is beginning to get better about foreplay, but that is yet another thing I had to kind of put my foot down about....up until the time I did, he was perfectly content laying there letting me do absolutely everything, so there was no satisfaction for me at all. I mean, I like making him feel good...I get a certain satisfaction from that, but I definitely never was having an "O".
He is so very reserved when it comes to sex that it's sad...I mean he puts me to shame back when I was LD. I was definitely reserved back then but I don't think I was ever quite as reserved as my H.
Like I said he's told me he doesn't MB, but I just don't quite buy that. This man spends more time in the bathroom in one morning than I do in an entire week of mornings. I don't know if Viagra or something similar would help boost his self-esteem sexually or not, but it's one thing we haven't tried yet....and I believe it's worth a try at least.
