Wow yeah Gel he could have performance issues then. You know my husband use to be this way in his younger days I guess. He eventually trained himself to be able to last longer. By getting right to that verge and then stopping. And doing that time and time again. I have even read articles where men have done this during masturbation. It helped them great deals in lasting much longer during sex.

Yeah you make a great point if he can find time outside work to do things....then surely he can make time for intimacy with you.

My husband also flat out stated he did not masturbate at all. I really took him at his word for a long time...until I caught him red handed...lol by accident. I was sooooo embarrassed. He is very private about this issue. Kinda weird.

Maybe the viagra could help. Anything is worth a shot. Is he generous with foreplay if he doesn't last to long?