Great advice Green. I will try that and be firm on the boundaries. I have never tried telling him it was rude and his silence meant to me he didn't want to work on things. I will try saying that. If he doesn't respond even then should I just leave it at that?

Good advice to not let pride get in the way. For him to cry like that. And I mean he was crying for awhile was soo out of character. And to say that he is sad all the time. Also he must have said three times when I tried to get him to talk or guess what was bothering him he angrily told me this isn't about you. It's about me.


How has your husbands attitude been? Has he tried to seek you out at all or be loving? When is your next MC session? I was also thinking about your scehedules. Isn't it hard to be intimate if you two harly see each other on the crazy shift times you work? Could it be possible like he is worn out from doing extra work at the house when you aren't there. OR possibly resentful to not see you as much to build a stronger connection? Just trying to think of all possibilities.