Good advice to keep a talk like that out of the bedroom. Green I guess I just get so frustrated. Because no matter what time of day I bring it up he refuses to admit he has a problem. Sometimes he will say things that irk him about me. I have listened to what he has said and improved the thinge he was unhappy about. But then I bring up the sex starved marriage and he clams up. I mean he absolutely refuses to address this issue. He would ignore me for hours if I could talk that long on the subject. This always and I mean always infuriates me to no end. I always try to approach the subject with sensitivity and very calmly and nicely. But then he keeps ignoring me even if I ask a question. It's like I am trying to talk with a 6 year old who is giving the silent treatment. So I know right there is where one of my problems is in this marriage. I have so much anger and resentment that I can holdf it in anymore....no matter how hard I try.

I don't think he would go in and get that checked. I have asked him for 4 years to go get his testosterone checked and that has never been done either. I guess the only thing I can do is to play mom and make an appointment for him. But I hate that. I am already a mom to 4 children.