I havent recieved a gift from my H in years. He has gotten us severely into debt buyign things for himself to the point where we couldnt afford to go out on my birthday but he was an hour late picking me up because he was out at Old Navy buying 50 dollars worth of clothes for himself. What would cause this behavior? Ive decided to stop nagging. but its so hard. All i would like from him is freshly cut flowers (even grocery store is ok for like 5 bucks!) a few times ayear, some nice cards and to be remembered on holidays. A few weeks ago, before i completely uncovered all his infidelities he meantioned a 5000 dollars sweepstakes from sears. He meantioned all the washing machines and household applieances he would buy!Nothing about even purchasing me my own wedding ring. I wear an heirloom from my great grandmother, which i know is a treasure, but nothing would please me more than to have my own sparkling ring from my husband. Even my own simple gold wedding band. Sorry i just needed to vent.
