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He will "talk" about doing things I've told him I would like, but very rarely actually follows-through on them. Usually when he does follow-through it's after I've gotten really upset, or have really withdrawn as well....so he feels he's in the dog house.




GEL, This is MrsGGB to a T. She seems to step up to the plate only if I get upset or if I get emotionally very distant. As soon as i get close again, the efforts evaporate. It doesn't do much for getting over a case of dontgivashititis.