This sounds a lot like the phrase you hear a lot "hate the sin but love the sinner." A good principle, but hard to follow (I see a lot of hating the sinner going on).
I guess my question would be, how do you separate the person from the R. Isn't a person's behavior in large part who that person is? If you love/accept the person but not the R, what are you in fact loving/accepting about that person? Their ideas/words? Non-R behavior?
And what if the problem in the R is sex/intimacy/affection, but the LD person considers their LD to be an integral part of who they are?
Not disputing what you are saying, it makes a LOT of sense to me. I'm just trying to organize it in my head. Thanks for listening.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
