Sure, we all have filters when it comes to listening to others...that's a human fallacy we all have. My H seems to have risen this to an art-form though. I have no doubt I'm guilty of this from time-to-time as well, but I do tend to be better at clarifying things than my H does. This particular comment that I spoke about was made in January of this year...very nearly a year ago and this was the first I've heard his "understanding" of it.
When I first made the comment several months ago....in our MC's office. I thought it was clarified at that time, he had even repeated back what he "understood" me to say at that time, however over the past several months he seems to have edited his understanding down to just that portion of what I said....and focused on that as a reason not to step up.
Anyone got that 2x4? I may need to borrow it. Oh no, wait! I have a cast-iron skillet, that'll work just as well.