Gel, Sorry to hear you caught a case of the dontgivashititis that has been going around. HP had it, I got it, Karen got it, and now you. I caught it mid-August, the precipitating event was when MrsGGB started crying during ML because she didn't want to do it but felt like she had to in order to keep me happy. I recently started to recover from it, mostly by just "acting as if" and trying to focus on the things about her that I do love and trying to ignore the sex stuff. My natural horniness has still not returned, so in essence I have become the LD in our relationship. Our frequency is down and most of the time I am forcing myself to be into it. I'm not sure if there is a complete recovery or not. I've settled into being comfortable, but not necessarily fulfilled, KWIM? I hope you pull out of it quickly.
