Let's say you found a man that was interested in other things. If he was LD, would he then be a good match. I guess the meaing of my original question is that if a LD person was treated LIKE LD people treat their spouses, would that be a good thing? I know that you do not like being desired for sex, so would it be better if your spouse was just like a LD, and that they could not express any physical desire for you, that they don't like to touch, that they don't like to kiss, that the sight of you does absolutely nothing to arouse them.