I have not found ANY solution that works with these women

We will have to take your word on not finding any solutions. There is only one woman you need to find a way to work on things with. Others failures is not relevant.

That being said your substantial frustration is very discernible. I hope you make some decisions soon, that allow you to give yourself peace and relieve your stress.


But for a fairly large numbe of women, there is NO underlying sex drive, it is GONE.

Corri made some fantastic posts about personal needs, to Chromo and GEL. Brilliant in fact.