If you and your W divorce, you'd better be prepared for her to lose weight, start dressing sexily and be looking for a man to meet her needs--physical and otherwise.
Her sex drive is not dead; it is dead within the context of your relationship. The only people who can revive it are you and her. Or the next guy who comes along can assist with that process, your choice.
Do you think that all the divorced women out there who make these changes are 'freaks of nature' but your wife would remain exactly as she is? Don't you think this is a statistically unrealistic thing to expect to happen?
