I agree with you 100%. I have yet to see ANY relationship with a ND woman actually succeed, even in all the books I have read. When people start saying that if you work on relationship problems, then things can be worked out. This is true provided there is an underlying sex drive, hidden under resentment. But for a fairly large numbe of women, there is NO underlying sex drive, it is GONE. I have not found ANY solution that works with these women other then the man just has to kiss his life goodbye, and believe me, I know several older men who have had to do this.