Women generally ML. Men gennerally have sex. Having sex seems to be a bodily function that a gal has no comparable item for. Men get all tired after. Women are energized.

These comments say loads to me about your experience(s).

It is typical, and reinforced by many books.
McDonalds is typical lunch fare for most americans also.
Doesnt mean there arent alternatives.


Many men on here claim to enjoy the total woman. .............. I wonder however how many really just want to get it on/off in a "bathroom like matter" without the togetherness of the couple?

Doesnt really matter does it?

Your H is the one you have to work with and deal with. The one you have to learn to deal with conflict, and to come to agreements and compromise with. Not with any of the namby--pamby lover boy, kiss your feet guys that exist here.

Now that I have said that I am going to have to go find your background and probably wind up cursing myself for being a insensitive clod again.

at least I am aware of my shortcomings.