Women generally ML. Men gennerally have sex. Having sex seems to be a bodily function that a gal has no comparable item for. Men get all tired after. Women are energized.
Women make love with their emotions and pour their beings into the experience. Some guys, my H for example, never thought of the gal, or how to find the ways to please them. He just thought that you "hammer long enough" and that will work.
Many men on here claim to enjoy the total woman. Teasing, snuggling, coaxing, laughing and then masterfully making love to her, tenderly or animalistically or anywhere inbetween. I wonder however how many really just want to get it on/off in a "bathroom like matter" without the togetherness of the couple?
LG I love to spend that time together and enjoy pleasing her as it turns me on more. I have heard too many times remarks like "lets just get this over with". I hate that, lets enjoy this and what life has for us what's the HURRY??? I had gotten to the point of as Monk calls the negotiatied sex, or pitty sex or what every you want to call it, I just got up and said, no thanks. If the goal is just to "get off" that can be done done by yourself without dealing with crappy attitudes. ML is basicly like dancing if you have 2 partners who are in tune and like to dance they get better and better with practice. What I don't understand is why would a partner who really doesn't like to dance marry a dancer?
Monk; I think you nailed it very well.......THANKS MAN!!! You are so much better than this Fool at making and writing observations. Can I steal it?
