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I wonder however how many really just want to get it on/off in a "bathroom like matter" without the togetherness of the couple?

Not me.

Also, I wanted to note to Paul: I bet there is no way to "provoke" that realization in your wife. She will either discover it, or not.

choc: you've been sounding like a glass-half-empty guy lately. Kick it (or her) into gear, my friend.

I know, easier said than done.

Hairdog