Women generally ML. Men gennerally have sex. Having sex seems to be a bodily function that a gal has no comparable item for. Men get all tired after. Women are energized.
Women make love with their emotions and pour their beings into the experience. Some guys, my H for example, never thought of the gal, or how to find the ways to please them. He just thought that you "hammer long enough" and that will work.
Many men on here claim to enjoy the total woman. Teasing, snuggling, coaxing, laughing and then masterfully making love to her, tenderly or animalistically or anywhere inbetween. I wonder however how many really just want to get it on/off in a "bathroom like matter" without the togetherness of the couple?
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay