Well that was a phenomenal post. I love the parts about focusing on the good, and since he is a man, being responsible for the sex he gets, since he has a lower -then him -drive spouse.
Damn the confidance just drips from his post. He does what he does because he wants too. Out of self respect. Not out of manipulation. No victicm mentality any where to be found. He practically screams I dont care what happens.
And then he is freaking funny on top of it.
I am uncontrollably attracted to him.
I started trying to place blame on my W and she said "what would you rather do...bitch and feel bad or focus on the fact that you have a naked woman straddling you right now".